Self-love or self-sabotage?

Is this an act of self-love or self-sabotage? This is a good question to ask yourself when you're struggling with a decision.

First, identify what it is that you want. Then look at your options. Will this choice move you toward creating the life you want? Will it make you feel good and let you feel proud about your actions? Or alternatively, would this choice move you farther away from your goal? Would it be taking the safe, easy and ultimately less fulfilling route? Would it be chosen in response to the fear of others' opinions?

Please choose love and not sabotage.